June 16, 2016

One Thing That Gives Small Businesses the Advantage

Like many small business owners, mom was determined to survive.


I was 6 months old when my mom opened her cake shop. She was a single mother with an infant to care for and $37 to her name.

And like many small business owners, she was determined to survive.

She started her bakery in the front display window of an old candy store in downtown Nashville. She offered to pay them 10% of her profits if they would let her set up shop behind their little, unused show window.

But that was just the beginning. It wasn’t long before the candy store owners asked her to move into her own space because, almost daily, there would be a line around the block for her cakes!

My entire childhood is filled with memories from that cake shop.

When she had to bake in the early hours of the morning, she would pull me out of bed, wrap me up with lots of blankets and comforters, and put me in the car. I slept on the way to the shop, and when we got there, she would make me a bed of covers piled on top of her 50-pound bags of powdered sugar and flour.

I would wake up and go to elementary school with the scent of flour still in my hair.

During my middle-school years, we would blast the oldies radio station and sing together while we cleaned until late at night, just her and I. When I got a little older, she even let me make deliveries on foot to the offices around downtown Nashville. And as a bonus, I got to keep the tips—which was big money to me!

Thirty years, nine relocations and countless cakes later, Mom’s still in business. And while her cake shop is obviously woven into the fabric of my life’s story, it’s also woven into the lives of thousands of others around the city.
You see, my mom hasn’t remained in business because she has the most beautiful cakes. They’re impressive, but they aren’t the best you can find in Nashville.

She hasn’t outlasted the roller-coaster economy because she has the cheapest prices. Honestly, she doesn’t.

And she hasn’t been able to compete with the Walmarts and Krogers of the world because she offers astounding flavors. Although her cakes do taste better (not that I am biased of course).

My mother has survived in business because of one thing: she cares.

If you show up in her lobby with three kids, she will come around the counter and give each a free cupcake to keep them happy while you pick up your cake. If you forgot to order your cake until thirty minutes before you need it, she will whip up a miracle and have something ready before you walk through the door.

If you leave the shop and smash your cake on the sidewalk, she will make you a new one for free—and tell you she’s so sorry that happened to you.

She comes in early, stays late, hustles, and goes above and beyond for every single person.

That’s what sets my mom apart from the bigger businesses out there. And that is what sets you apart as well.

Few employees collecting minimum wage at chain stores really care whether or not their customers get what they need. The famous quote from Office Space rings all too true in many large stores: “It’s not that I’m lazy. It’s that I just don’t care.”

All you need to compete with the big stores out there is the very advantage you already have: you care.

When you care about people, you create an experience that transcends transactions. When you care about people, you create relationships and trust and loyalty that no amount of money can buy. When you care about people, you are truly making a difference in their lives.

Then, your business is no longer about cakes. It’s about caring for your customers.

That’s why you have the advantage this year. You have something that other big businesses don’t, and probably never will: you care.

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  • Dot says:

    Yes, you care. That is most important. Our family of 7 had a bath products business. It was only in business at craft shows and out of the house for orders. Orders in batches or individual sales. People bought at craft shows but didn’t follow through with during the year. Which was okay when you are trying to home school and home business. It taught my children more than anything about cooperation – as a family. After my husband died I couldn’t see doing both his part and mine and it making ends meet for the now, 6 of us. That was okay, I believe they all learned life lessons, along with having fun. Thank you for sharing your story. I am SO very proud of your Mom. Well done, faithful servant of the Living God!

  • Michelle says:

    Loved your story and to learn of your Mom! What an inspiration of love, customer service, and determination. WOW. Bless you both. Thank you for your messages. I read every one!!

  • Amanda says:

    What an incredible story and testimony. I love it! We are our starting our second year of our business and my hope is that people will find that we care as well.

  • Zeny says:

    Amazing story. I was blessed by your mothers dedication , hard working and help others special. Thanks for sharing and God bless.

  • May story is I was able to get through my firs half of college debt free, and three class away from my associate, though it took me four years gong as older student part time. Thank God now I am taking a free non credit class in exchange for a credit class which will make me just two credits closer to my Associate Degree and I have found a new job.

  • Sue Cabot says:

    This message resonates with me quite often. When people care, you know it, feel it, and taste it in edible products that are created. It’s something that gets missed these days, unfortunately. I’m hoping to aspire to what you mom has done for you in my newly found future business (at least I hope it will be) of baking. Thank you for your guidance 😉

  • Arlene says:

    I enjoyed learning about your childhood and your mom! Please tell her what an inspiration she was in creating a business and loving you.
    Now I know why I like your spirit and the encouragement that you share with us!

  • Ronita Kipp says:

    This is a beautiful story, it inspired me to keep on the path that I am on. I also have started my own business, divorced, and is a mother of 2 beautiful, wonderful daughters. Your story was a blessing to me. Thank you 🙂