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January 5, 2017

Don’t Let Fear Stop You From Starting

At 21 years old, Carrie Underwood had never been on an airplane—until she flew to Hollywood for her second American Idol audition. I can only imagine how anxious she must have felt, leaving her small town in Oklahoma and getting...

Don't Let Fear Stop You From Starting

At 21 years old, Carrie Underwood had never been on an airplane—until she flew to Hollywood for her second American Idol audition.

I can only imagine how anxious she must have felt, leaving her small town in Oklahoma and getting on that plane. How scared her parents would have been, letting their youngest daughter go to Los Angeles on her own. How impossible it must have seemed for Carrie, who describes herself as “shy,” to sing on national television. She recalls, “I was . . . by myself, putting myself out there, which is a scary thing for anybody to do.”

But as author A. P. Gouthey wrote, “To get profit without risk, experience without danger, and reward without work, is as impossible as it is to live without being born.”

If Carrie Underwood had let fear keep her from travelling over 1,400 miles away and sharing her gift with the world, we may have never heard “Jesus, Take the Wheel.” And she wouldn’t have the illustrious career with countless awards and accolades or the rewarding life that she now has.

So why is pursuing something worthy—something that you love—so scary? The truth is, we’re scared because we might fail. We’re scared because we don’t think we’re good enough. And the fear of failure terrifies us because it’s elusive, subjective and abstract. And hey, you might not meet your goal. You might hit a roadblock or you might disappoint someone. So what? That’s part of life. I’ve “failed.” But so has every successful person on the planet, so you and I are in good company. You can’t succeed unless you fail along the way.

You’ve probably heard my favorite quote from Michael Jordan before: “I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

Fear will accompany you when you do great things. It’s part of the journey. Everyone who is successful has doubted their own qualifications and had to find the courage to take that first step anyway.

Academy Award-winning actress Kate Winslet, Facebook COO and author Sheryl Sandberg, and award-winning poet and civil rights activist Maya Angelou have all expressed a fear of being “found out”—that the times they’ve failed could mean they’re really a fraud.

There’s actually a name for this type of fear, and it’s called “Imposter Syndrome.” Ironically, those who generally suffer from Imposter Syndrome are the highest achievers! The person sitting on the couch doesn’t care if they fail, because they aren’t trying anything new.

So nip Imposter Syndrome in the bud by reminding yourself that failure is an attribute of every high achiever. Successful people have had the same fears you do, but they haven’t let those fears hold them back. Putting yourself out there comes with risk, but without it, you lose all chance of success. The fact that you’re worried about it means you’re already ahead of the game!

Here are some other ways you can overcome fear:

  1. Do the thing once. Write your first blog. Tutor that first student. Start charging for those handcrafted hair bows. Host a Facebook Live video for your business.
  1. Let yourself be a beginner. Success doesn’t happen overnight, and you don’t need all the bells and whistles right off the bat. For example, I don’t want not having a website to keep you from starting your business. You can start your business with nothing more than a good idea and a Facebook page!
  1. Give yourself pep talks. Tell yourself you can do this. When you declare your plans out loud, amazing things happen. There is power in telling yourself that you can chase your dream and you will reach your goal. Saying it out loud can change your entire attitude!

Fear wants us to do safe things, but God calls us to do substantial things.

So whether you’re trying out for American Idol or working up the confidence to open your first Etsy shop, don’t let fear stop you from starting. And if you stumble, just remember that every failure brings you closer to success.

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  1. Lisa Burns says:

    Christy,
    This is just what I needed to hear today. Yesterday, I was so frustrated, I was wanting to throwing in the towel. I got up today knowing it was a new day and a fresh look at all that I was so frustrated with in starting my business.

    Thank you for the encouragement! God used you to pick me back up.

  2. Alison Bass-Broaddus says:

    Christy,
    I love reading your posts and this one especially spoke to me today. I have a fear of not measuring up to what I know I have the potential to do. I just have to face the fear and push myself like never before. Reading these words today helped me in so many ways. So thank you

  3. Elizabeth Reyes- Jensen says:

    I enjoyed reading this article, actually I love them all…
    I work full time at a job that takes me away from home and to over 11 states. Although I love my job and have been there going on 10 years, I desire to own my own business.
    I’m afraid- of failure, being too old to start something new, not having the security of my paycheck every two weeks and not being able to help my husband meet our retirement goals.
    Thank you for the inspiration and support you bring in all your messages.
    I hope I can get out and do what I want sooner than later.

    Have a blessed New Year!

    Elizabeth Jensen

  4. Carla Corum says:

    I so treasure your words of inspiration … thank you for overcoming fear and all of the other obstacles to share your gift with the world. I can assure you, you are empowering lives!

    cc

  5. Terri says:

    Great article!! Great for business and life in general. I’m gearing up for a bride Show representing my company and it’s easy to let the fears creep in, I have to move forward in fear and hope for a great outcome. I re listened to several of the podcasts today to refuel and this article was the icing on the cake😊
    Thank you!

  6. Diane Egbert says:

    I finally got the nerve to start my Etsy shop. I have had hardly anything listed there and about 6 months later a major magazine contacted me to feature an item of mine in there DIY magazine. If I hadn’t have started that wouldn’t have happened.