The Business Boutique Podcast

Ep 40: Top Traits of Highly Successful Women

February 06, 2018 - 01:06:10

What makes a highly successful woman?

top traits of successful women

Society often paints a picture of success that looks like this: Either you’re home all the time, dedicating 100% of your time to your family, or you’re at work all the time, completely abandoning your friends, family and the rest of your life.

But as I discussed with Laura Vanderkam in Episode 34: Excuses That Steal Your Time, that’s a myth! The truth is, you can be successful in multiple areas of your life. You can be successful in your career, your relationships, your business and even your health and exercise routines—get this!—all in the same life.    

It’s all about priorities.

When every waking minute is taken up for work, routine responsibilities, or taking care of others, you’ll feel the opposite of successful; you’ll feel stressed out and set back.

For example, when I start to feel overwhelmed, it’s usually because I’m not spending time on the things that I care about the most. So, I’ve made it a habit to take a look at my schedule when that happens. It’s pretty eye-opening to see what gets my time. If I’m honest, there are a lot of unworthy motivations I have that sometimes creep to the top of my priority list, such as:

  • Pleasing people
  • Being the hero
  • Accomplishments
  • Keeping up with Facebook
  • Pursuing perfectionism
  • Approval
  • Feeling needed

Chasing those motivations, no matter how much effort I put into them, always leaves me coming up short. I spin my wheels, and I feel like a failure.

The problem with achieving success in your life (and mine!) isn’t that we aren’t doing enough, and it’s not that we’re doing too much. Often, it’s that we’re doing the wrong things. So, let’s talk about the right things!

And don’t worry, you don’t have to sacrifice—at least, not in the way you think you do.

In this episode, I’ll reveal habits, characteristics and traits that are present in the lives of highly successful women. I’ll dive into the seven things you need to prioritize to achieve success. And the great news it this: If you don’t currently have them, I promise you can learn to practice all of them starting today!

By the way, you know what’s not on the list of traits of successful women?

  • Pleasing people
  • Being the hero
  • Seeking approval

(You get the idea!)

My guest this week is Ali Brown!

ali brown

Ali is the host of the highly successful Glambition podcast, and her passion is to see women succeed in business! Ali’s story of success began with recognizing what she was good at. She was a mover and a shaker working in an office of—as she puts it—“turtles!”

It didn’t take long for Ali to realize her own potential, get excited about doing things her own way, and quit her day job to pursue her own freelance business full time.

In my conversation with Ali, we’ll talk about:

  • What it means to blaze your own trail, do business differently, and design your business around your life
  • How Ali got started using email newsletters when the Internet was just becoming a thing
  • The benefits of being inspired by other women rather than intimidated by them
  • What success really looks like today
  • Three trends she sees in highly successful women

Success Story: Abbey Ashley’s Wildly Successful Courses & Coaching!

Abbey Ashley

Our success story this week is Abbey Ashley, founder of The Virtual Savvy. Abbey says she helps “savvy starters launch and grow their virtual assistant business to 5K months and beyond!”

Abbey took what she knew from being a virtual assistant and turned that knowledge and experience into online courses. While her first course launch was by no means successful—she only had one customer sign up—she didn’t give up there.

The next iteration of her business was in virtual assistant business coaching, and she started The Virtual Savvy in August 2016. Since then, she’s become hyper-focused and (at the time of publication) has made over $300K in sales! I’m so excited that she’s sharing her strategy for success with us.

Plus, I’ll answer some of your business questions from our Business Boutique event in November!

1:12 Top Traits of Highly Successful Women

15:29 Interview with Ali Brown

45:38 BB Success Story with Abbey Ashley


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  • Venus Allen says:

    I️ was very green about Podcasts then I️ started listening to Joel Osteen and then I️ realized I️ was listening over and over so I️ ventured out into other Podcasts. Business Boutique was my second one and I️ have a comp book full of you wisdom for my staging business. Coming to see you in KY God willing. Just waiting for the right moment to buy ticket. Thanks so much Christy. You’ve been inspiring!

  • Colleen says:

    Christy, I really enjoy this particular podcast. I keep repeating it to listen to again and again. I wish there was a transcript because I want to print out your “Top Traits of Highly Successful Women”. I want my son to read them because I feel they are helpful for anyone not just women. My son is a very difficult teenager (as most are) but benefits from reading rather than hearing from me talk directly to him (like most teens).

    Thanks for your podcast. I appreciate the hope it gives me